1 at a time...
Date: Sun, 07/08/2007 - 05:55
Submitted by Morningstarr430
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Sun, 07/08/2007 - 05:55
Total Replies: 26
Any opinions?? Or suggestions??
Morning, Although i don't have any pdl's i know EXACTLY what u
Morning,
Although i don't have any pdl's i know EXACTLY what u mean about sitting here doing nothing! It drives me mad!! I just want this over and put behind me! But my atty keeps telling me to hang tight so i do, month after month until CACH shows up again, and they ALWAYS do!!!
I've finally told my husband about this mess since he was served with a summons, that i signed for, on Friday to try and garnish his wages! He's freaked out now!!!! As we spoke of all this mess i've gotten into yesterday he wanted to just call CACH on Monday and pay them the WHOLE amount which is now triple what the original debt was! I told him to hang on and let teh atty do the work!! I am sending him, (hubby) this site so u guys may get to meet him also! ha ha A family affair going on now!
But i DO know how u feel about being reactive instead of pro-active!
Please know that i wish u nothing but the best in ur fight!
Good Luck,
Ang
Thanks Ang...and I am glad you told your husband finaly. I know
Thanks Ang...and I am glad you told your husband finaly. I know how hard that was...I have 2 adult children and it was very very hard for me to admit to them how bad I screwed up...I thank God every day that they have a good grip on their won finances and they certainly didn't learn that form me. What is your attorney doing?? Are you filing chapter 7??
An object in motion tends to stay in motion. The law of inertia
An object in motion tends to stay in motion. The law of inertia applys to people also. I find if I start writng letters I want to keep on going. I agree that filing in the state of origin is the best. I have gotten better response that way.
No, morning NO chapter 7 for us! Thank goodness! He's just tryi
No, morning NO chapter 7 for us! Thank goodness! He's just trying to help us with settling this judgment and also, the original suit was CACH VS ME, now they want to garnish "HIS" wages. He is going to look into it and see if they want to do this, they may have to re open the case and then we start all over agian. Almost an advantage to me if they DO re-open the case since they're SO sloppy!!
BUt I chalk it up as a life lesson learned!
Keep the fight up Morning!
U will previal,
Ang
Morningstarr, I chose to fight one at a time after I sent all o
Morningstarr,
I chose to fight one at a time after I sent all of my PDL's letters and stopped getting a response. Last Thursday I chose to work on xxxxxx PDL and sebt them my letter immediately I got a PIF from them. Not that this will happen with all of them but I find that if I take all of this stuff out and try to figure it out I get overwhelmed. I have individual folders now and a list and I am going down one by one to get rid of them.
Thanks Bflow...I knew I had seen that in a recent post but could
Thanks Bflow...I knew I had seen that in a recent post but couldn't remember who posted it...LOL. I think this next week I will try that. I will start with my worst nemesis and work my way through my lis..maybe sometime next year I will be free...LOL.
No problem morningstarr, Just stay calm and work at it. You wil
No problem morningstarr,
Just stay calm and work at it. You will prevail, it just may take more time with some than with others. I'm finding that is the case with mine. I am down to the worst ones but I'm still going to fight them.
One at a time is probably the best way to go, imho. And Ang, is
One at a time is probably the best way to go, imho. And Ang, is Lousiana a community property state? That would be the only way they could go after your hubby's wages, I think. These people are ruthless!
Good luck Ang...I don't understand how they can go after him...b
Good luck Ang...I don't understand how they can go after him...but I'm sure your lawyer will be able to help you out...
Louisiana must be CP. From what I remember from training at work
Louisiana must be CP. From what I remember from training at work there are only like 9 such states right now, and most of them were in the south.
Ang, most states have a 90-day max garnishment, then the writ must be re-filed, giving the debtor a chance to make an arrangement or prove insolvency. There are a handful of states that don't do that, though..Do you know if La is one of them?
It sure is a community property state! GRRRRRRRR! But the paral
It sure is a community property state! GRRRRRRRR! But the paralegal said then that means he is only liable for HALF the debt!! We'll see and there is NO way we'll let them garnish his wages! If it comes to that we'll just pay the %&$^$^#! lol
Happy Sunday u 2,
Ang
I'm sorry you have to deal with this!! :( It will work out
I'm sorry you have to deal with this!! :(
It will work out in your favor, though..You are being incredibly proactive.
I don't feel that way fins! Since i've gotten this atty i feel
I don't feel that way fins! Since i've gotten this atty i feel like i'm just being reactive and i'm SO not that sorta person!! I usually AM pro-active but they keep telling me to hang tight! I'm tired of hanging tight!
But ur right fins, it will all work out, always does in life!!
Thanks for the support though that helps a LOT too!
Ang
morningstarr
morningstarr, it was me and bflow that gave the advice of working on your pdl's one at a time. In the beginning, I was throwing my whole BODY at them and it was consuming! Now it's one a day. And I believe bflow is doing it in the same order as I am. I've started with the ones that were "easier" and working towards the "ugly" ones. At least, when you get a response in the POSITIVE, it gives you the incentive to move on to the next one. After sending out all the initial letters, filing all the initial complaints, anyone that responded to me, I responded to them. Got some good results. Then the ones who didn't respond at all, I worked on them - still waiting for responses, but I'll hound them! And the ones who are down right dirty nasty, I'll work on them. But one at a time. I was trying to do them all together and just get it all resolved. Won't happen. If you concentrate on one at a time, you'll get results. If you don't, move on to the next one. Then come back to the ones with no response. But, don't just let them sit. Let these people know that you are still on to them and standing by your laws!
Atta girl, Cannr. You GO!!! You are doing incredibly well at thi
Atta girl, Cannr. You GO!!! You are doing incredibly well at this! And at the end of the year, we should all have a getting out of PDL-hell party....
Hey, why can't it be? We should do something like a video chatro
Hey, why can't it be? We should do something like a video chatroom!
That would be neat...web cams..synconized to our times.
That would be neat...web cams..synconized to our times.
Let's do this, OK????? It would give us something to work toward
Let's do this, OK????? It would give us something to work towards! We have 5 months to work on it--and I am going to PM the site administrators. We NEED to reward ourselves!
I just PM'd Vikas with this idea. I really hope this flies!!!
I just PM'd Vikas with this idea. I really hope this flies!!!
Morningstarr, With all of us working together , you can be done
Morningstarr,
With all of us working together , you can be done in 5 months!!!! We will help you!
Ok, i don't have pdl's but i DO have CACH! Hopefully I will hav
Ok, i don't have pdl's but i DO have CACH! Hopefully I will have them behind me by the end of this year also. Can i be included in the party? lol
I'll need a celebration when they finally go away and are outta my life for good!!
Ang
I listened to Cannr and Bflow too and it's working for me - I th
I listened to Cannr and Bflow too and it's working for me - I think I may have worked another PIF today with GECC. I've got all the hard ones left (all MTE in one way or another) but I'm just going to do one until I get some kind of answer-good thing I have access to a fax - email, fax, AG complaint NY and PDL origin and anywhere else I can!