I'm Curious
I don't know the details---you might want to ask one of the admi
I don't know the details---you might want to ask one of the administrators (Vikas, Polly, Mike, etc.). But, don't think you are stupid (cause if YOU are then you are in good company)---but, rather uneducated in the ways that consumers can be duped/tricked/etc. into borrowing money, getting credit, etc. That said---Welcome to the forum!
You're going to find that you have plenty of company in this boa
You're going to find that you have plenty of company in this boat and on this journey. We've all been and are there, trust me!
Lorri and ks are right. I would say the word you are looking fo
Lorri and ks are right. I would say the word you are looking for is "uneducated". All of us came to this board the same way and have learned as we go along. Welcome from me as well!
I did not mean to offend anyone by the use of the word stupid, b
I did not mean to offend anyone by the use of the word stupid, but I do refer to myself as such. I have put my family in a bad spot and really feel like this is not going to end. I let everyone down, I have had some crazy thoughts going through my head but it seems there is no way out.
kcooks - You are not the only one thinking crazy thoughts and f
kcooks - You are not the only one thinking crazy thoughts and feeling that way. One year ago, I too was "thinking" and felt that there was no end in sight. I will tell you that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Hang in there and keep visiting and asking questions.
I found that when I was feeling depressed over this situation, asking myself this question helped - "What is the worst thing that could happen." And then I would think of the positive things in my life. My family and our health, etc....
Welcome and hang in there.
Quote:Mike is no longer associated with this site Why would
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Mike is no longer associated with this site |
Why would you say that? Get your facts straight before making assumptions. :wink:
No offense taken. All of us have done "dumb" and "stupid" thing
No offense taken. All of us have done "dumb" and "stupid" things in our lives. No rhyme, no reason, stuff happens.
Definitely no offense is taken---read through enough posts on th
Definitely no offense is taken---read through enough posts on this site and you will find that a great many of us have referred to our actions/behaviors/patterns of the past as STUPID or DUMB.
Those two words are so overused in today's society that they almost have lost their original "uumph". So don't give it a second thought. This is a very, very accepting forum, as most of us have been in the same predictament at one time or another.
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Mike is no longer associated with this site
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Why would you say that? Get your facts straight before making assumptions. |
Maybe their facts are straight . . . .
No need to thank me, I think most people just don't know the who
No need to thank me, I think most people just don't know the whole story.
I thought we were told just last week or so that Mike would be b
I thought we were told just last week or so that Mike would be back soon???
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How did this site get started. I thought I was the only person to be so stupid. This is so out of control but the information on this site is really refreshing. |
Kcrooks welcome to debtcc. Please read the following story to understand how this website started.
http://www.debtconsolidationcare.com/forums/about2083.html
Thank you for the info Polly, but that really does not clear up
Thank you for the info Polly, but that really does not clear up the confusion regarding Mike.
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Quote: Mike is no longer associated with this site Quote: Why would you say that? Get your facts straight before making assumptions. Maybe their facts are straight . . . . |
OR, maybe their facts aren't straight, too many 'maybes' which causes assumptions.
Sassnlucy Wrote: Quote:I thought we were told just last week or
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I thought we were told just last week or so that Mike would be back soon??? |
Yes we were, however, I'm not quite sure why people are so quick to jump the gun and spurt out information which they have no knowledge about, it only stirs the pot, and that needs to stop.
My information comes from a very reliable source. In fact, it c
My information comes from a very reliable source. In fact, it comes from the only person that besides Mike that would know what happened.
I am not making ANY assumptions. My information is from a source that you "are behind 100%"
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I'm not quite sure why people are so quick to jump the gun and spurt out information which they have no knowledge about |
How would you know what information people have? You couldn't know where people get the info they post about. It is you that are making assumptions. You are assuming people are not saying the truth, when you don't know what the truth is.
Shazzers who were you referring to "stirring the pot?" I know fo
Shazzers who were you referring to "stirring the pot?" I know for a fact that Goudah does not ever just go around "spurting off information" that she has no knowledge about. I challenge any of you to show me something of the contrary because I know that it can't be found. What we are asking for, is to know where Mike is and his status. I trust in her 100%, but I would also like to hear it come straight from admin. Mike was a great friend to many of us and I think that we deserve an explanation. I have always known Goudah to back up anything she has ever said with facts.
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How would you know what information people have? You couldn't know where people get the info they post about. It is you that are making assumptions. You are assuming people are not saying the truth, when you don't know what the truth is. |
I was attempting to keep things from esculating when a "Guest" made a comment about Mike NOT returning. My point here was; we (The Mods) were told Mike was returning, for the record, that isn't an assumption. :wink:
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Shazzers who were you referring to "stirring the pot?" I know for a fact that Goudah does not ever just go around "spurting off information" that she has no knowledge about. I challenge any of you to show me something of the contrary because I know that it can't be found. What we are asking for, is to know where Mike is and his status. I trust in her 100%, but I would also like to hear it come straight from admin. Mike was a great friend to many of us and I think that we deserve an explanation. I have always known Goudah to back up anything she has ever said with facts. |
I was referring to the guest.
Well it looks like the post from Goudah was quoted. I am sort of
Well it looks like the post from Goudah was quoted. I am sort of new here and have not registered for various personal reasons. The advice and honesty I have recieved from this member has been very helpful to me. I do not believe that he/she would try to cause trouble or say something that is not true. In fact advice was given to me that was incorrect and if it were not for this member I would have been in deep s**t