It seems pretty petty now

OMG Karen!!
I'm SO sorry to hear of all this going on in ur life! Please know taht i have been thinking of and praying for ur mom and now i will add ur friends! How devastating for the family!
:(
Ang

OMG I am sooooo sorry to hear about this :cry: ...I will be praying for your friend and your mother and your family. Please take care, and I agree with you 100% what everyone is squabbling about is nothing compared to what is happening in real life.

Everyone needs to take a step back and look at what they have and not take it for granted.

ladybug

Thanks for the support and prayers, it means alot. I am leaving to go to the hospital now and to check with my friend and his family-They are searching the river- but no signs of her. Everyone was hoping she had run away, but I guess he told them he did something to her..karen

I had to take a break and come here for a while to calm me down so I could be of help to mom and their family!!..

oh my goodness well I hope that something comes up. I am just so sorry to hear about this.

ladybug

Bossy you will be in my thoughts and you are absolutely correct on how PETTY internet boards become compared to real life. No one forces anyone to post here and everyone who has been here a while knows I do not do drama as my life has enough without anyone adding to it.

Karen, I am sorry to hear of everything that has been going on. I will keep all of you in my prayers. Keep us posted.

Karen :rose: I am sorry to hear what you are going through. I will keep you and your family and your friends family in my thoughts and prayers. :hug:

Karen - I am praying for your mom and your family, and for your friend's family. I'll be praying for a peaceful resolution to both situations.

karen, i am so sorry. my prayers are with you and your family and your friends. hope the outcome is good in both cases.

karen, I hope your mom is okay. I am so sorry to hear about her being in the hospital. And my heart goes out to your friend. I will be thinking of you. :rose:

Karen, you are in my thoughts and prayers..Need anything, please pm me.

Karen, major prayers and hugs to you and your family. We will pray for you friend's family as well. please keep in touch.lots of support here for you

Karen,
I wish you and your family all the best and my prayers and thoughts are with you
Mary

Karen...my thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and your friends during this trying time.

Dear Karen I pray for your mother and for this poor girl.
I hope your mother get very well soon.
i hope this girl was not murdered and she is alive right now.
It is so sad to see that a killer still alive and
a innocent child have to lose her life.

You know where to find me if you just need someone to talk to... That PM button!!! :)

There is light even on the darkest of days. I hope that you find yours.

Thank you all so much for your suppport, thoughts and prayers!

Mom, as of last night, is as bad as she was when she went in to hospital-going to dinish coffee and go back to hospital.

They still haven't found my friends daughter-still searching the river- but I am afraid the guy lied and they may not find her.

You are right CAjun- I can't afford any drama in my life-got enough!

Again- thanks for your prayers and thoughts- it means alot..karen :D

WHO WANT TO DONATE SOME POINTS FOR BOSS KAREN?
SHE TOLD ME HER MOTHER IS NOT OK AND SHE IS HELPING FRIENDS THAT ARE LOOKING FOR THEIR YOUNG GIRL MAYBE DEAD RIGHT NOW.
I THINK KAREN BOSS NEEDS EVERYBODY HELP NOW.
PLEASE WE NEED TO HELP KAREN WITH ANY AMOUNT LIKE 10,20,30,50,100 POINTS WILL BE A GREAT HELP FOR HER NOW.IF EVERYBODY GIVES A LITTLE SHE GET SOME EXTRA POINTS FOR HER.
THANKS!!!
I WILL ASK GOUDAH TO DONATE SOME POINTS FOR ME.
I REALLY DONT KNOW TO DO IT.(THE DONATION)

i donated. i wanted to share some of my blessings :D

Is there anyone sweeter than tania? :D

I don't think so Cannr. Tania is the best and has a heart of gold :rose:

I THINK ALL OF YOU HAVE A HEART OF GOLD.
I THINK THE BEST PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD IS LIKE THE GREAT MEMBERS OF debt consolidation CARE FORUM.

Karen, i am really really sorry to hear about your mom and your friend, I will have you, your family, and your friends in my prayers. Hope your mom gets better. Please be very strong during this difficult time.

I HAVE A BETTER IDEA,HERE.
GIVE 1 POST(POINTS) TO KAREN BOSS TODAY.
ONLY 1 POST.
I SAW MANY PEOPLE HAVE NO POINTS TO GIVE AND I FEEL BAD TO ASK THEM FOR POINTS.
THE PROBLEM IS THAT KAREN BOSS NEEDS HELP NOW.
PLEASE DONATE ONLY 1(1) POST FOR KAREN TODAY.

Tania- You are so sweet and such a blessing in my life!! I appreciate it, but I want everyone to keep your hard earned points, you earned them, and I know everyone can use them with the holidays, bills, etc.

Thanks to those of you who donated, it means alot.--Just keep my family and my friends family in your prayers-that is worth its weight in gold!!

Thank you Tania--may God bless you-and thanks to those of you who have sent qms and pmd me. --it has helped me get through this!!I love you all..karen :D

I WROTE 1 POST FOR YOU,KAREN AND IT IS 20 POINTS.

I gave you what I had left after giving to Granny:). But I don't think you got my message because I keep getting an error when I write a message when I donate :evil:

THANKS ALL WONDERFUL PEOPLE THAT DONATED POINTS TO KAREN BOSS.
SOME PEOPLE DONATE TO ME EITHER 500 POINTS AND I GAVE TO BOSS KAREN.
THANKS!!!THANKS!!! THANKS!!! THANKS!!!THANKS!!!
THANKS!!!THANKS!!! INFINITE TIMES...........THANKS..
:lol: :hug: :sun: :rose:

You are so right when we bicker amoungst ourselves...how small our problems are compared to the real life issues. You will be in my thoughts and my heart goes out to you and your friends. May God be with you all.

Thank you all, once again for your thoughts,donations and prayers-it means alot

Update-I don't think mom is doing much better that when she went in to the hospital,but may have been a little better last night.Going back over there in a while.

They still haven't found my friends' daughters body-they have search teams, dogs, etc., from all over the country-but no luck yet..Please keep us all in your prayers..karen :D

karen, you are in my prayers..I will be thinking of you. If there is anything at all I can do for you, please let me know. I love you!!

Thanks Fins--it means alot to me--love you too girlie!!..karen :D

:hug:

:D

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

ladybug

still praying, Karen...

i am one of the members here who donated 500 points*( via tania sweet girl ) to your post karen ---and am only wondering--what happened to your friends daughters body? I am still keeping you in my prayers and am hoping for the best :D please keep us all who have become a part of this drama on forum updated on what happened --I wish I knew where you were from so I could follow case intensively! I am so sad I need some info before i have to search all websites for newstory! karen where is this case happening? what state and county please? I personally know investigators who can help!!!!( and will volunteer their expertise!!!!)

karen I am so sad that no one has found a body yet --I can't sleep because of it! wondering what is going on now? please let us all on sight know what happened! this is so sad that no one has been able to investigate! :cry:

Karen,
I am sorry to hear about your troubles. I wish that I had something profound to say to make you feel better, but no words are going to help. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and I hope that your mom gets better and that your friends family at least gets the closure they deserve. God Bless

Hey LEah- good to see you!! Thak you all again for your thoughts and prayers. They still haven't found her body yet-still searching.
There have been teams from Texas and other states who have brought in dogs, searchers, etc and have been searching for the last few days- I am in Oklahoma.

I am afraid they may not find her-I figure he doesn't want a body to be found, otherwise they can't charge him with 1st degree, I don't think. The poor family hasn't slept or eaten in days and days--keep them in your prayers..karen

Going back to hospital in a little while- mom still isnt' doing really well, may be some better..

take care karen ! I contacted Nancy Grace website urging her to do story-and gave details you provided and hope all here will do so--she is so good about covering these types of stories and I think has helped many find closure in these types of cases--I am hoping they try to contact you through the sight and can give this story the national attention that it deserves you and family are in many members thoughts and prayers

also, this poor girls' sister must feel such guilt that her boyfriend is the prime suspect what a terrible story

Hanky, that was quick thinking about contacting Nancy Grace. She does offer excellent coverage on stories just like this one.

I read just a couple of days ago that Nancy Grace was hospitalized for blood clots in her lungs which led to the premature delivery of her babies birth three months early. I sure hope that she is okay.

ladybug

The things that some people do are petty and sometimes often pathetic. It's sad that it takes a tragedy or an emotional encounter to correct the behavior or to open some eyes and realize that there are things out that matter so much more than trying to one up someone or take someone down. Some people will never learn but for those that do are definately the lucky ones.

I hope Karen that you are well. Good things come to good people are you are certainly one of the good ones.

Thanks FYI- so are you!! I learned a long time ago that life is way too short- and that everything you put out into the world-good or bad- comes back to you--so I try to put out good!! I have had several people on this site pm me with such horrible personal stories-thanks for sharing them--It goes to show- if you are being mean to someone-you might want to think about it. You never know what they are facing in their life.

They still haven't found her body- I am positive he lied about where he put it.

As far as Nancy Grace- I heard she was on leave and had become ill,too. Unfortunately, this is just one case of thousands everyday of children missing or murdered--appreciate the thought, but don't know what she could do that's not being done- if she does contact me that's great-will put her in contact with the family or Police dept..karen :D

i can almost feel the pain of the parent, not knowing where their precious child is.

I know- me too granny. I cannot imagine the pain- I don't know that I could ever give up looking- karen

last year, i lost an nephew (he was 3) in a drowning accident. he was an only child and my parents only great grandson and my sister's only grandchild. we did not think that we would get over it.

Well first of all I never said I contacted Nancy Grace personally-- she has a web sight where you can go to bottom of page and contact with information--(and I have done this a few times before in missing children cases that I am aware of but have not seen on national tv) --I then provided this sites' info and said to contact Bossy--(before Karen responded and stated case was from Okla)--I have family in law enforcement and asked them to look for familiar case on wires--but too many cases to narrow down this story!-so hey! no excuse me for caring!--but I think Karen-- you may want to mention the fund set up for this family and this tradgedy-- in case any one else here who cares choses to donate to it--and FYI I certainly hope you weren't talking about me in your little response because you have absolutely no right to judge anyone here and that is why there are so many problems on this sight--do you know how many people have pm'd me about others being afraid to respond to you because you act like you are the supreme know-it-all? So thanks again to this site--I am now out of here for good and I certainly hope that in the future fyi you will clean up the poop in your own backyard before trying to pass judgement on others :D And I must add to anyone who reads this response--there are many other debt consolidation sights out there who don't act this way please do the search and compare!

i went back and read everything and call me slow or what but why is hanky so upset? :?