It seems pretty petty now

granny, you can call me slow, too.

that makes 3 of us gals!
:?
Ang

4!

I am slow also, but this is not the post to start anything in. Bossy needs us to keep her, her family and her friends family in our prayers and thats it. Nobody was talking about anybody in general. I think it was great for Hanky to try and help. In this day and age it is hard for a lot of people to care about someone they don't know (except for here :) ) So now lets get back to the original topic of this post please I think Bossy is under enough stress right now and doesn't need to read this in her post.

Karen you know, you, your family and your mom are always in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that your friends will find their daughter soon and I will keep them in my thoughts and prayers also, so that their nightmare will end real soon. Take care and if you need me I am just a PM away. :rose:

YOU 4 GUYS gals actually --are killing me!!! with your blinders -- why did I challenge a debt collector who called me petty and pathetic? Killers do not get called those fond terms EVER!!!she in fact tried to turn this very serious post into personal vendetta --not at all about girl in river*( who's parents have a grand baby from this same killer who did this to 13 yr old daughter!)by the way--someone on sight chose to turn this tradgedy into a personal problem this person had with me--sorry you 4 got caught up in the trap! 8) 8) 8)

and as my last plea here-- I tried to enter it earlier after so many responses from my e-mail in past 2 days --all were from debt consolidationcare .com that brought me back and am trying to hurry here so I won't get timed out---this poor girl and family has a contribution fund called "Fund for Cori Baker" @ bank of Oklahoma--hope all here will cash out points and donate whatever they have earned here or can offer in the next few months---tried to post on last post but didn't go thru--lets all here not pay a penny to any debt collection you might have paid from now until the new year---donate to this poor family who has suffered soooo much---put up or shut up--very simple--don't try to challenge anyones petty or so called pathetic intentions--instead---step up to the plate here and now!!!--in a perfect world when debt collector's on this sight can make terrible accusations against someone which at this time-as we speak--is being looked into by experts in field of being very well compensated for supported known wrongdoings----and she can actually can have 4 of all of her total 9 fans on sight (after 1000 posts support here)----good for you for trying to turn this situation into something it's not-- and trying to call someone other than yourself the truly pathetic one here! Angry? Only because it seems I am only one so far on this wonderful sight who has actually tried to do something here about this terrible situation!!!

Good point puddle and i agree with u 100%.
My thoughts and prayers are with u Bossy!
Plz keep us updated,
Ang

Karen, I sent you a few PM's. I know things are tough right now. You know where to find me if you need to talk. I would be more than happy to give you my # if you need to talk.

I personally don't see where there was an attack, or any names named - so I don't understand why this personal issue is being aired on this very sensitive thread. If a member has a problem with a mod or another member, please contact an admin with the problem and ask them to mediate and sort things out.

Karen, I am praying for you and your family, as well as your friend's family. I know the holidays are difficult enough when there's an ailing family member...let alone added stress from other things going on. Blessings on you and yours.

First of all, thank you all for your prayers and support,pms, etc, it means alot. I haven't been on for a few days, haven't left the hospital-mom not doing well. Came home to get clothers and go back and check messages.

I want to say, I understood FYIs post completely, she was saying the same thing I was saying- sometimes it takes a tagedy in life to make you see how petty things can be.SHe didn't mention any names that I saw- but I am in a hurry and may have missed someones name-don't think I have ever heard her do that, but htat isn't important, she was talking about people in general. And hey--I probably have 4 friends too- but thta's 4 I am blessed with


As far as the fund for Cori goes, I appreciate it bring brought to the attention of all, but I know the family, and the last thing they would want is for someone to not pay their bills to help them-- whether it is a collector or not.

I really don't have time for the backbiting here for while-mom went into renal failure, had an episode with the pacemaker, blood pressure down to nothing,etc.,etc., plus dealing with people who are searching for their child/grandaughter, and looking very grim at the least.

I am sorry if I sound short or curt, but no sleep for 3 days, and 6 hours for 4 days, will do that. I do hope you all had a good Thanksgiving-I am hoping we can have ours at some point-hospital food wasn't very good!!

Again thanks for evrything, and please,please, let's all just try to get along- at least to help others..karen :D

As usual, Karen, you said it best. All I can add is a resounding AMEN.

Small differences and misunderstandings do not need to be blown out of proportion on this thread.

bossy, still praying for you, my friend.

I am still praying as well..Hang in there.

has anyone donated to cori fund yet? Just wondering

Again, thanks so much you guys, it has helped get me through this

Mom was doing a little better yesterday so I actually came home and slept last night-first time in 4 or 5 days- I need to be more gratefull for my bed!!

Haven't been over to hospital yet, or talked with her, am going to go in a while- they said maybe by Tuesday if she starts eating, gets stronger, etc., she may come home..Keep us in your thoughts and prayers..karen :D

Bossy....I am thinking of you and hoping all turns well for you this week!!

Thanks Morning! I am heading over to the hospital now- they had said if she started eating and her blood check out ok, she may be released this week- of course, that's a big "if" :lol: karen

Karen I will be praying really hard that your mom gets to go home this week. I know how hard it is to "live" at the hosp. it really sucks. Just remember you are always in our thoughts here. Thanks for the updates, and remember to also take care of yourself during this time :rose:

Thanks Puddl!! It really helps to know I have support here-and to those of you who have replied,pmd,qmd, etc--Thank you from the bottom of my heart.My granny always said you could find out who your true friends were when problems came into your life- and I have!!

Haven't been taking too good care of myself- am going to try- forget to eat and take my heart meds-which isn't good!

They still haven't found my friend daughters body- they are sending an out of state search team up today, but there are no clues-so it looks pretty grim.

I am going to hospital now-then eat and take meds :lol: Thanks agian, my friends..karen :D

Just an update and to put things to rest--Mom is home and doing a little better-thank you all for your support!

I have been distubed hearing that some people have put some mis information about Cori. The only thing we know for sure is-her sisters boyfriend picked her up from school and she was murdered. Her sister did cover for him for 2 days-said he threatened her to do so.

There is no race card here- but a murdered child who hasn't been found- so please stop the rumors about her being pregnant, race card, and that she was trying to attract her sisters boyfriend-nothing is known yet, and I don't want her family to get on the computer and read this--they have enough right now--keep them in your prayers..karen

I'm SO sorry to hear about this Karen! At this point all that matters is finding this child so her family can have some sort of closure. Although this will not take their pain away in any way it will give this child what she rightfully deserves!
There will always be rumors and made up things but i say we all let teh cops do their job they are trained to do.... and pray for resolution for this family!
Thinking of u and ur family and ur friends!
Ang

Thanks Ang- you are right, this family needs closure, and I don't know how that is going to happen if they don't find her..I have heard all sorts of rumors around here- it makes the family crazy to hear all of this.Thank you for your support and prayers..KAren :D

Bossy...hope your mother keeps doing better and better. As far as the child I keep praying the police will find her soon. Keeping you and Cori's family in my thoughts and hoping for closure soon.

Karen I will keep praying that your mom gets better everyday. I am glad to hear that she is home now. This way you can spend more time with her instead of being stressed out (not that you are not already) by going back and forth from hosp. to home. And you can gets some rest. Like I said before , take care of yourself also.

I will also keep cori's family in my prayers. Hoping she is found real soon. I can't imagine what the family is going through. But as was posted above, this family needs closure.

Take care Karen and you know we will always be here for you :rose:

KAREN I PRAY FOR YOUR MOTHER EITHER AND I HOPE CORI WILL BE FOUND.
GOD BLESS YOU,YOUR FAMILY AND GOD BLESSES CORI'S FAMILY EITHER.

did we all who have read this thread donate to Cori fund? person here who provided original info about this case on this thread provided original info then later stated they didn't want to provide info about town they lived in--please don't believe fabricators here--simply google--"Girl missing in river in Oklahoma" to get info--do what your heart tells you to do--don't let the fact that her sister was with different race who killed her deter your opinion please! donate what you can to this family in their time of need--not to anyone here on site! please!!!!

First of all, no one is donating to anyone on this site regarding Cori. Second-I told everything-wasn't asking for donations- just prayer. It is so insensitive of you talking about her sister being with someone from a different race-what does that have to do with her being murdered? The only thing we know, or ever have known is-once again- she went to school, was picked up at school by her sisters boyfriend, and never made it home-alledgedly-he told police that he put her body near a river-which was a lie-that's it--i would appreciate it if you want to attack me personally-pm me- don't use the boards for attacking me- there are too many people here that want and need help..KAren

Bossy, i have seen NO where in any of ur post u asking for donations!! As we all know guest is the only person who has seen this and as we ALL know exactly "who" guest is, my suggestion, as hard as it may be, to just ignore "guest" post on Cori and continue to keep us updated and know that the family is in my thoughts n prayers daily, along with many other members of DCC.
Ang

Thanks Ang- I know who it is too-taking steps to take care of it-they like to stir up trouble and not going to take them slamming me here and on my home page,in the name of Cori--Thaks to all of you for your support and prayers..AS far as the donations- some people did donate a total of two or three dollars total-not for cory,but for my situation- jeeze I am explaining something to someone who doesn't get it anyhow!!..karen

You truly don't have to explain urself to ANYONE Bossy!! If I chose to donate my points it's NO one's business who i donate them to or for what reason! Plz do not feel the need to have to defend urself. The members who have been here for years know who u are and know what kinda person u are.... the rest don't really matter... (especially a guest who doesn't have the nerve to sign up and say who they really are, although EVERYONE knows)
Plz keep us that truly DO care updated,
Ang

Thaks Ang- thanks to you and other who have pmd me-it means alot-and nmo more defending myself!! I think I am going to run a contest and see how many can guess who this is posting, don't know what the prize will be :lol: Will keep everyone updated-they have had the search teams in again, but they left- still nothing- but hopefully they will get closure soon..karen

Bossy you don't have to explain yourself. And you certainly don't have to explain yourself to this guest. We know who you are and what your heart is.

Those that know me know that I don't usualy acknowledge a guest comment when I feel their intent is to be a jerk. I am highly offended by guest's comments. Race has nothing to do with ANY tragedy beyond what someone makes of it. Guest go find another forum please. This thread certainly isn't the place for comments like that and this commuity is almost like a family and we do our best to try and not stir up trouble.

Bossy first of all I would just like to say thank you for all you have done here and will continue to do....
I found this sight about a year and 7 months ago when I was contacted with harassment for middle childs' debt..and I never joined as member because am shy and don't care about debt points and don't need consolidation help..yet I visit often because I truly have found inspiration reading threads and posts and have seldom responded..just enjoy visiting site that offers help to all..
however I want to thank you all here for bringing this case to this communities ' attention and Bossy not a slam against you ..but I would hope you don't continue to sell this community short..2 weeks ago after I read this post that you started.. I was inspired to ask fellow coworkers the question "Would you be willing to give a dollar to a complete and total stranger from another state that you will never meet and has a missing daughter?" This lead to a $54 postal money order that was sent to the Cori Baker fund in care of this bank anonymously.. my feeling was that it wasn't much but if enough people out there in this huge community could do something this simple...as asking coworkers to donate one dollar for a stranger who has a missing child it would at least show support..and now I am saddened..you obviously know this family and from your statement you stated a fact that no one has donated from this site..were you counting anonymous donations in that estimate? Because if money order I personally mailed with personal note to this fund ...yet I remained anonymous... has not reached family yet I now need to file claim with post office and stop payment on postal money order?...my feeling is now this..since bossy stated for a fact that no one else here from this wonderful site has donated to this fund..if I was a parent in this situation.. ten million dollars in a trust fund wouldn't be any compensation..my frugal attempts were a waste of time...can some of the other members out there perhaps send a card or a note in care of this Cori Baker fund?..I am sure the family will receive it..offer your condolences prayers and support..that will cost every member of this site exactly 42 cents..this site has shown me some very wonderful stories and in this case a very bad story..please in the spirit of the season..can we all step back from the backbiting and finger pointing..count our blessings say a prayer and stop this nonsense? I am only a guest and have always only been a guest on this beautiful site...but good intentions can never be overlooked and never have to be recognized..if I saw this crap and I will call it crap because that is what this is..creepy crap slinging over who really did something right? Bossy I thank you once again for bringing this case to our attention..but please don't think and state that no one here has contributed because I personally know it has happened because of your caring post about your friend God Bless you Bossy!!!! And fyi you are the poster ahead of me..i agree with you that many people here know where a person's heart truly is no one has to explain anything but if everyone here will just read all members' and mods original and subsequent posts for over a year they can then come to their own conclusions! and in the aftermath leave this poor girl's family out of the overall pic!

To Guest cori?
Bossy has been a respected member of this community for quite some time. She does not seek attention, or favors. Shes has always been a kind and caring individual who seeks to help others avoid some of the pitfalls she has encountered in her own life. No where have I seen seer "seek" monetary donation. To the contrary when some community members choose (freely) to donate some of their debtCC points, Bossy clearly stated she did not want donation, only prayer and emotional support. I do not believe bossy would ever fabricate anything for attention.

Bossy, like every other member of this community has encountered a time in her life of increased emotional hardship, and seeks only the friendship and support which the members of this community provide. If someone chooses to dig a little deeper and present other information that is done of their own free will, and anyone else who choose to followup (like donate to the the family's fund) also does so of their own free will.

Bossy,

I have been busy for the past several months and have not been able to be as active in the community as I would have liked. But please know that my prayers and thoughts are with you. If you need anything, just drop me a PM. I am glad you mother is doing better, and I hope your Friend can find closure to these tragic events in their life.

BOSS KAREN IS A WONDERFUL PERSON.
I DONT LIKE TO SEE SOME BAD GUEST CAME HERE TO SAY BAD THINGS AND TELL LIES ABOUT MY FRIEND KAREN.
STOP NOW GUEST FROM HELL!!!

LCW- Thank you so much for your post-it really means alot! And thanks to all who have supported me you all are my "family" For the last time- I didn't say do not donate or no has donated to Coris" fund from here--I said That I received no money FOR Cori- Any and everyone is invited and free to donate to her fund, and it would be nice if they did. I was not on here to solicit money, but to say, as LCW said- to ask for prayers and support. I am not going to continue to debate this- I have too many other things on my plate right now, and being there for her family is one of them..KAren

A side note-I have nothing to do with, nor do I know who has contributed, to the fund set up for her. If you have sent money- thank you-I have received several pms from people stating they wanted to help and have done so..Karen

Karen thank you for stating that you do not know who here has contributed and you admitted your big mistake after stating on Dec 9th ..in your above post that quote.."some people did donate 2 or 3 dollars total not for cory but for my situation"..I just joined as a member recently and sent well more than a few dollars to this poor family via this fund and your post! Thank you for admitting you were wrong..and I hope you keep up the good work !!!!the fact that you admitted you really didn't know who has contributed anything up to this point and admitted you made a mistake...is what led to my donation! thank you bossy! for being a real person on this sight who actually makes mistakes every now and then and admits when you are wrong!!!!

Bossy no one here needs to know any personal business unless you deem to tell them. Any donation of points or money was strictly voluntary and the donor may wish to remain private. I wish you and your family good luck in this holiday season. :D

Bossy if this topic has served it's purpose,let me know as there is no good reason for it to remain open and have to put up with some of the bad things in it.

Thank you Cajun- Happy Holidays to you and our family too!!

I started this thread asking for prayers and support for a friend of mine-and for the most part have gotten it--It has served it's purpose--those who wish to keep this family in your prayers can continue to do so... Thanks..KAren

You are right Cajun- am pretty tired of getting slammed Thanks for the support..Karen :D

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