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Unemployment.

Date: Mon, 03/31/2008 - 12:14

Submitted by FYI
on Mon, 03/31/2008 - 12:14

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I am now unemployed. I decided that the long commute plus the rising cost in fuel was too much of a strain. It was. 400 dollars a month just to go to work. It was silly. While I made a pretty good living it wasn't good enough for me to buy that much gas or sit in traffic a long with a 45 minute drive. My commute changed when we moved at the first of March. It went from 10 minutes to much longer.

Anything under an hour might not sound like a long drive but I have some issues. I can't sit in a car that long. It's a phobia of some sort I guess. I get very anxious.

I've sent out plenty of resumes and I hope it won't be too long before I find employment again. I have at least 2 good leads and I'm going back for a second interview on Thursday.

So today I am going to relax so I can flip out and stress tomorrow. I'm going to wash my car and clean it out nicely. Today was supposed to have been my last day but my 3rd child fell Saturday while playing basketball with a friend and sprained his hip.

Things aren't so bad. YeT! hehe


I just sent off for a current catalog for the local community college. I'm thinking about business administration and Spanish.


Also, for the guest post that hasn't posted yet. That is indeed good advice to give to your kids and in fact that is what my mom told me. My reasons other than what I posted above are my own. Needless to say I have the support of my husband and my family. The cost of travel outweighed the benefits.


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Submitted by FYI on Mon, 03/31/2008 - 14:32

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You have to do what is best for you and your family and you are the only one who can determine that. If a long commute is too stressful for you you should not do it. Gas prices are getting outrageous. Relax and enjoy your time off and good luck with the job hunting. I hope you find the perfect job.


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Submitted by pybasj on Mon, 03/31/2008 - 15:31

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Sorry to hear that you're on the bricks, FYI. With any luck, you'll find something better, closer.

Meanwhile, enjoy yourself for a few days. Nothing wrong with that at all. And give yourself a pat on the back while you're at it. You've done something that no one else could ever do. You've made me sad to see a collector out of work.


Best -

Wulf


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Submitted by unclewulf on Mon, 03/31/2008 - 19:31

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FYI, good luck and best wishes and if you go for Spanish and need some help you can alway pm me and I will help you anyway I can.


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Submitted by spanisheyes on Mon, 03/31/2008 - 20:06

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i agree with tania,you will find something real soon.
you are resourceful and intelligent.as for guest.sometimes you do what you gotta do.i'm pulling for ya. 8)


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Submitted by paulmergel on Wed, 04/02/2008 - 14:20

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Well I went on another interview today. This one was for the dispatcher position at the police department. This was the most intensive interview I've ever been in. I think I did well. I'm kinda hoping that the other job will call me back first though. I was told it takes about a week or two to do a full background check. I think I will call tomorrow to see how that is.


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Submitted by FYI on Wed, 04/09/2008 - 20:25

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I would call back too. It helps them see that you are interested.

I applied for 2 jobs once, wanted the first one more. I called them back after the interview and thanked them and then I called back a few days later and told them I didn't want to bother them, but I really needed a job.

It worked and I got the job and met my husband there!

Good Luck..Karen


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Submitted by Bossy4455 on Thu, 04/10/2008 - 16:59

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I don't understand why those in Washington and corporations don't seem to understand the financial bite that gas prices are taking out of people's pocket. I wish our sitting President could try to live on an average American budget for a week. I doubt that he manages his own finances anyway, and he can actually afford an accountant that does everything for him. He does'nt have to buy fuel for work. He lives at his place of employment! It is really hard out here for those of us that are average joes trying to make it in this world. Please someone pay attention to the consumer. What good is an economic stimulus package for american tax payers when it will all go to filling our gas tanks...., to go shopping Mr. President? Please! After filling our gas tanks to get to the local malls, we'll be lucky if we have 25 cents left over!


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Submitted by meircats on Thu, 04/10/2008 - 18:16

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do keep us posted FYI,as for the gas prices.
here in my little corner of illinois 3.59
UGH! :x :(


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Submitted by paulmergel on Fri, 04/11/2008 - 06:21

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I don't know how anyone can afford gas, groceries, etc., right now.

We are doing ok, but I know some who aren't. My son and his girlfriend live together-she makes less thatn $7.00 an hour, the work is hard to find, wages that support you, even harder.

I will stop complaining about gas though, after reading some of your posts- ours' is $3.09 at the moment, and I thought that was high! Although I have noticed that my grocery bill has about doubled in prices!

Good Luck FYI!!..KAren


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Submitted by Bossy4455 on Fri, 04/11/2008 - 08:32

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FYI - I am pulling for you too. You seem to be a very smart person so I am sure something will come your way soon. I always believe that everything happens for a reason. Keep your chin up.

Gas here is up to $3.65. I am glad the weather is nice enough now so that I can ride the motorcycle. Went about 200 miles last week on $9.00 worth of gas. Can't beat it.


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Submitted by spatterson_40 on Sun, 04/27/2008 - 03:53

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I agree with casjun
so many people are in debt and are worried about recession and depression I saw on line that your former job in collections /finances is a job that is in top 100 prediction of jobs to look for n immediate future
bty gas is close to $4 in all us cities we need to start riding bikes momm or open up our oil rserves


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Submitted by on Sun, 05/04/2008 - 03:01

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did you follow up with that lead?sometimes prospective employers like that kind of initiative.


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Submitted by paulmergel on Fri, 05/09/2008 - 14:11

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No unemployment for me even though I'm told I qualify for it. I left my job on my own terms so I don't think it's right for them to have to pay me for it.

The reason I quit because we relocated for my husbands job and it became unberable for me to keep up with the commute. Sitting in traffic sometimes for hours, moving a couple of feet every 10 minutes or so.

Because of how far away we moved I and that it was for a spouses relocation I am eligible but I don't feel it is right for the company that supported me very well while I was there to have to pay for that.


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Submitted by FYI on Fri, 05/09/2008 - 15:31

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Well FYI that sounds promising. Don't feel bad about collecting unemployment that is what it is there for...you had to quit for you and your family's well being and to mention the price of gas these days,...ouch just put $20 in for 5 gallons at $3.69, but that's a whole different story in its self. I will keep my fingers crossed for you.


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Submitted by ladybug on Sat, 05/10/2008 - 10:17

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I wouldnt feel bad either collecting unemployement if deserved it but I think if they would answer to unemployement claim in this situation that you voluntarily quit and job was still available if you wanted to come back you would not qualify to draw off of their reserve good luck on fininding a job soon :D unemployement is there for people who get laid off or fired not for those who voluntarily quit and seek a better life former employer should not have to compensate for this and I respect you very much fyi for realizing this fact :D


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Submitted by on Sat, 05/10/2008 - 21:46

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are you employed yet fyi? I think sad day in America if smart nice person like you couldn't find employment yet and are still looking for a job you have so much experience why can't you find a job in new location..is economy that bad? I pray in past month every night for you and family that you will find job wealth and happiness and haven't seen a post that you did find job....... usually our prayer group gets answers in two weeks I am very concerned and saddened here I am only hoping and keeping my fingers crossed for you and still praying!..please give good news to all here:D


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Submitted by on Sat, 05/17/2008 - 23:32

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