in home daycare debt

do you owe the money to her? Is your child still in her care?

i owe her a small amount, but my husband is in the army and she contacted his chain of command and gave him the amounts that we owe and i thought that this was illegal, we didnt say she could call his boss she just did it and is giving him all the info. no my kids are no longer in her daycare

do you intend to pay her, and just can't right now? Or are you refusing to pay for some reason (she was bad with your kids, that sort of thing?)

I know the military takes outstanding debts very seriously so even if she "shouldn't" have tattled to his chain of command, he might still get into trouble about this.

we intend to pay her and we are actually paying her what we can at the moment, but i thought by law u cant tell the details of the debt to anyone but the person who owes you the money, am i wrong? shes actually going into detail about the amounts and such, not just saying that there is a debt , i know the military is very strict about it that's why im very frustraited becaused the laws dont include people like her who are just private person(s) that we owe money to.

I think the military "rules" about debt are different. When my husband was in the Air Force we knew lots of folks that their creditors that would call the powers that be and tattle.

they can inform the chain of command only if they have the info though. she went through and called everyone until she found his sgt's which isnt allowed..and then she told him about the debt itself be it military or not i thought that you cant give that kind of info to anyone but the debtor.

thank you all for any advise. ive decided im just going to go to jag and see what help I can get directly from them.

as a military person your husband is "property" of the US Govt, and some strange rules apply. And I'm not sure that privacy laws apply to a private person, but of course I could be wrong?