Back Child Support Owed to me, will I get stimulous?

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Katy, then you might want to turn that over to an attorney or legal aid. All we can do here is share our experiences, in turn, which might help you, but since you know where he is, IMHO, your best bet would be to talk with an attorney to see what recourse you have.

What really bites is when a Father does the right thing by giving his ex a payment directly from his pay check and then 18 mo later she "Forgets" that he paid and goes to the court and says "I never got paid", now she earns a Good salary ($20+/hr) and is remairried and current husband gets a Good salary ($20+/hr). Meanwhile through wage garnishment (currently earning $10/hr)he has lost his license, Never see's his son and is now homeless. What does he have left, well i can tell you that the subject of suicide has entered his mind. All it takes is for her to acknowledge the fact that she did receive that money, correct it with the courts and he has no issue paying child support because he Does believe in the right thing. All this because he did not go through the court to begin with, he wanted to make it simple and easy.

Ladies, Ive been a victim also but recently i found out if any dead beat dad has money tied up in probate over an inheritance or money owed to him-CS doesnt even know unless you call and tell them so they can put a garnishment attached(just dont get the garnishment too early or whatever is entered will not go up in value as the months pass and he owes more!!-get the attorneys name and contact him first before calling CS),If there is a warrant-police dont even go pick them up even if they know where they live-they wait for a traffic stop,If you dont do YOUR part and ASK every question possible-CS wont tell you anything-they like easy cases. You may have to go as far as turning in companies that pay these guys cash-take videos-Start by emailing your Governor how wrong the system is and you want your case investigated NOW. Truely this is the only way WE can get the DEAD beat CS to help US.Im going to turn both the dads im dealing with into the IRS because they both do not file income taxes because they work for cash. Anyways let me know if any thing helps that i havent thought of Thanks[font=Impact][/font]

I can tell you that in Ohio the department that handles child support WILL garnish SSI. My ex owed me 21k and once he was flagged, I started to receive about $395 per month, even though my kids have aged out of child support. My case worker always told me that I would eventually get the back payments - even if it came ot of social security. You just have to keep up with the laws in your state and keep hounding your case workers to follow the laws as they are written.

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Like most of you women here, I have custody of my kids from a previous relationship. I originally declined child support because I was in a better position to take care of the two girls. Then their mother tried fighting me for custody two years later (and lost), but the state stepped in and ordered her to pay child support (double-whammy on her part). I received payments here and there, but now she is over $27K in rears. She has played the system like many have, getting jobs under the table, job bouncing, etc. But now that she is remarried, I wonder if her new husband knows everything going on. Even with all of this, I haven't mentioned any of this to the girls... and no parent should. I have completely encouraged my girls to know their mom and love her. I grew up in a broken home, and know first hand about one parent smash-talking the other parent to the child. It's hard, but this is where we need to put our differences aside and raise the child(ren) with complete affection and negativity. The kids will learn on their own. After all, everything my mom said about my dad was true. I have learned that the non-custodial parent who doesn't pay child support, will be reported to the credit agencies to have it reflected upon their credit report. But that still doesn't solve our problem. The fact that today there are almost 26% of moms who owe child support that don't pay as compared with almost 24% of dads. All in all, we are all in the same boat.

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My ex owes me $19,000 in back child support. He fought me for joint custody then up and left the state.( he just wanted his child support payments to be lower) He has been working under the table for years so as to not pay child support. I am at the point where I am going to go ahead and pay a private company to go after him. They charge 30%of what they collect which is insane but I see no other alternative. Have any of you had any experience with companies like this?

my mom had the child support when me and my brother where kids now we are wondering if me and my brother will ever see that money that we are older my mom call them and they said that he is paying back the county of where we where i am upset becasuse we really never seen that money ever so what should my mom do so we can get that money

well my mom has been get notices but nothing els so what should she do she is going to call them and see what is going on me and my brother well we never really got it or my mom sicece we where kids what should my mom do to fing out if me and my brother would ever get that money
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he has to pay all back support from the time u broke up or whatever the situation may be, me & my ex split up in 2007, & he has to pay child support from the day we split up, so hes behind 3yrs, he never paid a dime, but i was patient & kept contacting child support & they found him in contempt, we went to court & the court does not like irresponsible parents, so now that hes working, he has to start paying or he will go to jail. he has to pay all the back support and now when he files any type of income taxes, assuming he doesnt owe any money to irs, that check will come to me & son until all the money he owes is paid up. so to answer ur question, he will have to pay back support from the time he left ur home or ur broke up or whatever. hope this helps..

i understand what ur going thru, my ex pulled the same crap. call child support and go after him, explain whats going on, they prob can deduct any money from him bc hes working under the table, but u can get his license suspended for child support, if it hasnt been done already, u can get child support to put a lien on any bank accts, or assets he owns, they can suspend him from ever getting a passport, tell him u want them to file a contempt order, they will send the file info to their lawyers & ofc since he hasnt paid a dime, they will find him in contempt & put him in court, u can put him in jail. dont waste money on lawyers, bc in my opinion its not worth it, since he hasnt paid a dime.... have him locked up....dont waste time, contact child support right away, he should not be getting away with it...

I'ts just amazing how many adults think they can play and not pay!!! My sons donner owes me almost 40,000 in back child support. He just went back to court saying he had no money and so now he doesn't have to pay child support. He then asked if I would compromise some of the past due support so that he could get out of what he owes the government. (I needed a bit of help for the first 2 years of my sons life and recieved cash aid and other help) so he owes for that too. It's amazing that he has no money to pay for his children... yes children, just found out that there are atleast 2 other kids by different moms. Boy he has the money to go to Tahoe and gamble and supply his frig with BEER........ I have been recieving payments for the last few months for back pay. My case worker said he is paying cash and it must be he finaly got introuble with the law.....HAHAHAHAH

I believe that all deadbeat parents should be incarserated..... but be required to work and after expenses paid for their shelter and food (NO BEER, TV, CO

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NO BEER, TV, COMPUTER OR ANYTHING FUN) the remaining money go to pay back or current support. Just like Jail but making them work hard labor to pay what they owe..... Maybe not so many adults will make the same mistakes as our long lost donners.

Hi,

There are certain points to be eligible for a stimulus payment like,all taxpayers should have valid social security nos. Eligibility also depends on the income limits of the of the indivitual as individual who has less income and is not able to pay tax are not eligible!!!

im not owed near that much but im suppose to only get 50.00 a month and can't get that

wat do i do about if i am 25yrs old and my mom still get child support for me? how do i go about changing that.

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just so you know this happens way more than you think, a man decides to work under the table and pays no taxes, doesnt file, and the state of GEORGIA yes i spelled it out that was in 1993 and it is so true today , i fought to get my support and the father pays now !! you ready $100 a month till pad, he owed $42,000 and I will be 73 if I live long enough to collect it all, and not much has changed , my oldest lives in GEORGIA and the dead beat lives in SOUTH CAROLINA, less than 70 miles from his children and there is a court order that is having a problem being enforced !! , so I dont want ot hear how the state goes after fathers, they do !! the easy ones to get !!

you want the support from your mom? this is probably child suppport your dad already owed , glad you are not my child that i made sure you ate, had a roof, clothes to wear ,

they took my kids father taxes and he has two child support case out how do i find out how much money will i be recieving

Reading all this, is like looking at my court papers!! My ex does whatever he can to not pay me the money he owes to our son! He tells me to deal with it! It's the good fathers that get fu##ed! My current husband has two children with his ex and would do anything for them, The courts have made it to where he pays 1200.00 a month for his two children, every time my husband and I have something good go on it our live his ex takes us for more money! The last time they went to court he told the court that he was having problems paying so much money, and asked if it could be lowered, we have a 2 year old little girl together, my ex will not pay child support, The courts told my husband that his older children were here first! Pretty much saying our daughter didn't matter!! My husband will do ANYTHING for his children and his ex makes it very hard for us! I wish she would see what it is like to not get her child support!! Me just like most of you have DEAD BEAT father's for our children. My husband pays his child support EVERY MONTH and that is still not good for her!! It is so unfair, The good fathers get crapped on, and the dead beat fathers get away with not paying!!!

I live in VA and the few times I've dealt with Child Support issues the courts requested financial statements from both adult supporting parties (mom and dad) with copies of pay stubs, etc as proof. Then there is a calculation done because they can't take 100% of your income for child support. If your husband is paying $1200 in court ordered support he must be making good money at least if you live in VA....

So many weak women..! Before you judge men you should maybe ask questions.

Its amazing how many people run around trying to collect money from others. Everyone calling the man the bad person for walking out. Yet we never hear of the women that get rid of children that men may actually want. Can we collect monies for the lose of a child?

My mother raised me on her own without my father. He decided it was not what he wanted at that time in his life. My mother went against that but never chased my father for money, as it was her choice. She could not afford to have me, she was far to young but one way or another we made it. I love my mother and around 22 i met my father. I hold no ill grudge to him nore does my mother. Having sex takes two, having children is a womans choice. Ask yourself, does a man every really have a decision? Children should be brought in to this world with two parents that agree, or atleast one that is willing to take full responsibility (father or mother). Play adult games pay adult prices, this is the worse thing I have every heard. If this was true we would be going back in time, Which some of you belong.

Dont have children if you cannot afford them alone if you choose to do it alone. I hate to say it but to many women have children as an easy option, yes I know its not easy raising children. However, most of us know at least one woman thats sits around collecting money from all different sources just so they dont have to work or even live a better life. I know this sounds harsh but think about it?

I take it you are male.

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