What a bunch of cry babies

Cajun, I assume you are from Acadiana or close to that area. I know that you have so many cajun girls who you would love to see in Victoria Secrets (notice I say look but not touch).

I love to have a lot of purses and shoes. Clothes is eh but shoes. How many women who you don't know does not love to buy shoes? You can never have enough shoes.

Alexandra,
You are correct in look but don't touch.There are quite a large variety of women in Acadiana from different races and different backgrounds. I have aged enough where I can appreciate just about any woman because every woman has at least one feature or trait that makes her beautiful. I am a happily married man with two women now so even if I was dirty,would have no time for extra woman!Two women are my beautiful wife and my 5 year old daughter.

I like that answer Cajun. You sound as if you are good man with two women! :lol:

That is the way you were suppose to answer.

See how we have made this board go from being something ridiculous into something positive just by the way we are posting.

steeler1 you are terrific!you make this forum so happy!
it was so funny,i couldnt stop laughing.
you really make my day more happy today.
thanks!

I am so not posting in a forum talking about shoes and purses. You can't make me get involved in the conversation. I won't get in the middle of it and I won't give my opi.....

Errr............

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Why Jeff? We would love to hear about yours :lol: KAren

Jeff, why don't we talk about**** instead? :D

I know you like ****, I Love shopping for ****..My husband likes me shopping for ****, too.

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and hey, some of us like Victoria's Secret too, but can't shop there due to their limited range of SIZES. LOL :lol:

Do you wear ****? I love my****. The most comfortable ones are underscore from JcPenney. They cost more but they are so comfortable.

Jeff don't leave. Please don't go. Tell us about your shoes. Some men look very good in a pair of shoes. :lol:

Sue, I can't buy everything in Vicky's SEcrets. They are not for the full figured girls. I do like their lotions and perfumes though. Depending on where you go, the service can be so crappy nowadays. THen again, that is most stores I go into.

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I have a full figured woman at home and have learned that stores are selective on women sizing. What can I say,like women with real curves! :D

C'mon Jeff. Aren't you going to talk about those cute pink ballet slippers you bought to go with your pink and purple tutu?

Victoria's secret is for everyone..They keep the bigger sizes in the drawers.

Ladies, I have a big problem..I am very petite..5'1 and thin. Unfortunately I am a 38D. Trust me, this causes some problems clothes wise. I have to wear juniors on the bottom, but not on top! :D

A lot of **** companies think because you have big **** you don't want to be ****. I do...So I shop at Vicky's.

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I like Vicky's also finsfan. I wear the juniors bottom and top. I think it is safe to say that we are the same size with the EXCEPTION OF THE TOP AREA! LOL

LOL, Steelers, you can have half of mine!! :D

I spend more than I probably should in Vickies...I'm obsessed with their Secret Embrace line. They're gorgeous...And since I have limited resources up top, it makes the most of it...lol

LOL! This thread has turned into a real hoot! :lol:

I'm kinda like the song "Redneck Woman"..."Victoria's Secret..well, their stuff's real nice....but I can buy the same damn thing on a Wal Mart shelf half price...and still look ****..just as ****...as those models on tv...yeah, I don't need no designer tag to make my man want me..."

Well...almost like that song...got the Wal Mart ****, no man to appreciate it. LOL :lol:

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LOL Sue..

The Walmart stuff doesn't fit me as well. I don't know what it is..And it's not that I'm being difficult, I've never had one last from there. Or pretty much anywhere for that matter. :(

I love my Secret Embrace's though...I have 6 of them...White, Cream, Black, Black with gold flowers Pink with light flowers, and a sky blue with embroidered butterflies. I bought it specifically because it has butterflies. Yes I know that hardly anyone will see it, but I know they're there...lol

You single too? Man, I remember a time when I had men lining up at my front door and now I can't even get one to come in the yard. But oh well, I've had bigger issues to deal with lately. :lol:

I am saving my undies for a man of more importance.

Hey...until I married...I never had any of these money problems so maybe I should have stayed away from the men? LOL

LOL Leah--They ARE very expensive, huh??

I bought my Chris a VERY expensive guitar for Christmas....Christmas is a big holiday..Big holiday big present right? So his birthday is April 13...I ask what he wants for his birthday....He wants ANOTHER guitar....I told him to keep dreaming...lol

Sure he can have another guitar as soon as he buys you a new car.

I want a new car right now which is why I dumped the trainer and paid a bill.

It would be nice to have a man buy me something. I haven't had many men buy me things because I am one of those independent women. But it would be nice for some man to buy me something these days. It would be nice to have a man these days. But then again, some of them are as much trouble as a payday loan, ya know. :lol:

Is Jeff ever coming back?

LOL Alexandra! Yes, single here. But, surprise, surprise, I have TWO gentlemen asking me out at this time. Not that any of the three of us have made it actually WORK yet. :evil: In fact, one of them just cancelled next week's tentative date this evening...he grovelled nicely enough, though, so I let him live. ;-)

LOL Leah--They ARE very expensive, huh??

I bought my Chris a VERY expensive guitar for Christmas....Christmas is a big holiday..Big holiday big present right? So his birthday is April 13...I ask what he wants for his birthday....He wants ANOTHER guitar....I told him to keep dreaming...lol

Sue, you had two and I can't even get one!

I don't know if it is my charming personality or my fixation with sexy men on television, but I can't seem to attract the right one. I think it has to do with my eyebrows. I haven't had them arched yet, at least not in a while.

Ah, but the men here are so pathetic. They have too many women, too many men (yes, I said it) or too many kids by too many women. I can't find me a winner in the sea of losers.

What is a woman to do? :wink: Advice please.

Alexandra,
Sorry sha but I'm full up on women. Don't give up hope as I found my present wife when I wasn't even looking. :D

Alexandra -

Do what I did. Give up. Then they come out of the woodwork when you least expect it! When I stopped looking and settled into being a single mom and devoting all my time to my kids, my house, my job, etc....then TWO of them started asking me out. Hadn't dated in over 2 years (and even then, it wasn't a long-term thing-over in 4 monts).

The only problem is that they're asking, but nothing is coming to pass yet. Something is always coming up for one or the other of us, and none of us can get our schedules to coincide.

I know that is why I am focused on helping individuals get out of debt on this message board and hopefully, true love will come rearing its beautiful head upon me.

I guess I am still hoping for Prince Charming to be on this white horse with a cowboy hat on his head ready to sweep me off of my feet with his perfect teeth and a big......bank account. :wink:

I have read way to many Nora Roberts and Sandra Brown novels over the years. Can't you tell? :wink:

Sheet,
When I met my wife,didn't have a pot to whiz or a house to store said pot. Only good thing I had post divorce from my first mistake was a willingness to work hard and a stubborness to follow thru with attaining our goals.

Aww Jeffie,
I can feel your face getting redder over here!! C'mom Mr. Man, I KNOW you've been to Vickie's!!

Hey Cajun, saying something in French. You do speak it don't ya?

Speak it very little,but I'll try.
Come a say vaw(How are you doing in our language).

les le bon ton roule

and where are the crawfish, boudoin balls and cracklins?

It crawfish season, you got some. Do you eat them? I don't and I am from this state.

My goodness----this thread has turned around beyond my wildest expectations. To go from someone talking trash about us to posts about **** and bras and now cracklins and crawfish? Great job----

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Moderating this topic to Pub :)

LOL you know what my new addiction is? This website...I tell you it drives my husband crazy I am constantly on here..He thinks I have a boyfriend or something on here...lol Even though the computer and I are in the same room that he carries his love affair on with the PS2

Leah,
My wife was kinda susp. of here too with the time I spend here.She is like who are all these women!I kindly invited her to come and check any post I have and you will find out that she is not forgotten. She has her addiction to chat,mine is here.

Alexandra~ when you least expect it, things will happen and the next thing you know.... I went through a bad marriage and divorce from my first husband and I swore I would never ever get married again or get get involved with someone younger than me again, (ex was 2 years younger). I was working for this one company and my boss there decided me and this one guy should go out so he would go tell this guy I said he was cute, and this and that and then he would come tell me that this guy said he wanted to take me out, blah, blah, blah. This was, neither of us had said anything about the other person. In fact, I thought this guy was a snob and thought his stuff didn't stink. Well after a time, we went out (first date was to see Jurassic Park with my 2 kids sitting between us) :lol: Then one thing let to another and we got more and more involved and now married. Dated for 2 years before we got married. And he is 4 YEARS YOUNGER THAN ME!!! Been married since '99 and been together since '97.

Oh, and for the first time in several months, we went out to eat as a family at a restraunt yesteray. It was nice! Hopefully we will get to where we can do this a little more often. Won't be able to for a while again, but sure enjoyed it yesterday!

Yeah my hubby should know by now that if I haven't thrown him outta the house yet I must love him...LOL Kidding...Since I found this website I have taken back control over our finances..Its nice to get a paycheck and actually see the darn thing...Got to buy some new baby stuff :) Yeah!

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for everyone who is tring to get out of debt don't let people who think negative affect you because when they were in this situation they were tring to get help just like we are.

Hey...here's my thought on men. "Men are like toilets. They are either already taken...or full of poop." At least, that was what I used to think, before I met my husband. Then again.....he is kind of full of poop half the time. :lol:

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careful folks, another "guest" will come along to this thread (like the "why is this locked" thread) and tell us how childish and immature we are being.

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someone needs a sense of humor.

I beg to differ!Men can be quite useful at times! :wink:

Yes...you can. My husband is actually the best guy I've ever known, besides my dad of course. I AM a daddy's girl, though. I just remember how, when I was single, it was so infuriating when guys would act like big babies and lie to try and make themselves seem better than they really were. One guy even tried to tell me he worked for the secret service. Uh....if you really DID work for them, I don't think you would be able to tell me, dummy. But, back to the point, I think guys are GREAT. Your logical, black and white minds even out our female brains that tend to overthink and over worry about stuff. You ground us when we get too off base and flighty. THere are faults in both sexes, but when we come together, it's a perfect fit. .......Why do I feel like I just wrote out a Hallmark Card? SAPPY!!! :lol:

Cajun - I see that you said AT TIMES. Lets see- when you need a fourth for pinochle, finding the roll of duck tape, and my dad's (who I adored) favorite line when something needed to be fixed "I gotta see a guy".

You are all being "childish and immature", there the GUEST has spoken...lol

My husband agrees withme when I call him an a-hole. He said all men a-holes and damn proud of it! LOL He says he is trying to teach our son that and that he should never argue with a woman because he will never win. He is so right!!! LOL :wink:

I love these varied topics of discussion. Random, funny, and non offensive. It appears some people will always try to whip it up though. For what? To bad there is not an ignore person feature here like there is on AOL, so as the reader we would not have to see the posts from the people we don't want to see.

You know up until that last sentence I actually agreed with the original poster.

There is no quick and easy solution if you have substantial debt. Whether you decide to weather the storms and deal with creditors and their agents your self, or you go through a consolidator or counselor (who some of your creditors may refuse to deal with any way ), the fact of the matter is the solution is not easy, and it certainly won't happen overnight. But then most of us didn't just get in debt over night either.

Bankruptcy as an option? Sure, it's always an option, but (speaking from experience) it's no better or quicker a solution than anything else. Yes, it may stop the calls cold, but once it is dismissed, it will be used against you over and over. My bankruptcy will drop off my credit report in a few months, and to this day it is STILL used against me.

Are people that turn to BK losers? NO! a little uninformed maybe. Desperate or panicked? Definitely. If your are considering BK as an option, PLEASE be sure to research it thoroughly. Talk to those of us who have done it. DON'T listen to your lawyer when they tell you "it's no biog deal, you'll get CC offers within a few months", yeah you get the offers, but when you fill out the application and send it back you also get denied (except for high interest, excessive fee "rebuild your credit" cards that use up your whole credit line to pay their fees that you then make payments on.