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Farewell

Date: Sun, 08/06/2006 - 22:52

Submitted by polly
on Sun, 08/06/2006 - 22:52

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Today as I was googling 'illegal payday loans' I ran across a website called www.cashadvancecare.com and I noticed quite a number of similarities between the website that I was on, and www.debtconsolidationcare.com. I started looking around, and notice how very similar the format was, and how the administrator named 'clark' signs his threads 'regards'.

I proceeded to pull a who is report and this is the information that I found:

128 Forest Hill Road
Kalispell, MT 59901

This address can also be found on cashadvancecare.com's contact us page.

THIS IS A FICTITIOUS ADDRESS!

Addresses start at 130 Forest Hill Road, as there is a mobile home community directly north. http://gis.mt.gov/

The who is report for this website lists the phone number for this website as being 406-756-8680, which belongs to a lady named Jean Shaw who lives quite aways North of this fictitious address.

I proceeded to view the privacy report which indicated that there is an image being used from .visitlab, owned by 'Vikas'.

Essentially Vikas owns cashadvancecare.com where he uses similar business practices as he does here, in that he is getting paid a referral bonus from Payday Loan Companies when people join that website.

Then, the poor souls who use that service can potentially come over here where Vikas can get paid for yet another referral from a debt consolidation Company.

I am certain that I am not the only one who sees the HYPOCRISY in this playing for both teams type of business. I cannot in good conscience continue to give one more moment of my time to this website, knowing the things that I have learned today.

Vikas, you may revoke the title of moderator from me, and remove my blog from your server.

To all of my cyber fam. I will miss you tremendously.

To everyone I will search and find in the very near future a new venue to promote ending PDL's, and helping people who are in trouble with PDL's. Just google pollyandsay and in time you will find me.

Peace to all of you.

Polly

[color=darkred]Vikas edited the post to add a link to the related topic to avoid the confusions.[/color]

* Changes made as per TOS 12.


Here are the quick points I will prepare a more detailed response and post soon:
1. purchased and then let it remain there without making changes to content and only putting the same software. (reminder to self: attach the screenshot of multiple spam one month old to prove this)
2. ampmcash.com we want to make something like prosper.com
3. cashadvancecare we want to make a forum explaining the evil of cash advance
4. we have not referred even one person to a cash advance company
5. Visitlab is a technology site for checking click frauds. It is offering great services for free.

If there is any proof you want let me know and I will be provide that. I can put my hand on my heart and say that till today I have not referred even one person to a cash advance company and never intend to.

Polly I will personally be very sad to loose you and so will everyone in the community. Please reconsider your decision.

Regards,

Vikas


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Submitted by Vikas on Sun, 08/06/2006 - 23:35

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Vikas I do want to believe, and I can see for myself that the site is not well maintained. However, the posts from 'clark' and 'brooklyn' certainly contradict what you are saying. Did you or any member of debtcc write these excerpts?

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Hi Brenda,
Thanks for your interest in Cash advance care.

Please use our sign up form addressed at http://www.cashadvancecare.com/signup/ and provide your informations. one of our representatives will soon contact you for the loan.

If you face any problem or have any query regarding the sign up process or our services, please feel free to post that in our forums.

Looking forward to serve you.

Regards,
Clark


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We are dedicated to build up a community that will help the common people benefit from interactive discussions on various cash advance related topics. Our community aims to work together towards the development of the cash advance and payday loan industry.


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It takes around 6 to 8 working hours to process your loan application requests and approving them. In case we get the loan application requests at the weekend, we process them by the beginning of the next week.


Can you explain the fictitious address and the residential phone number?

Whom did you purchase this website from?

I am fair and I will give you the opportunity to explain your position, but you must understand that this all looks really shady.


lrhall41

Submitted by polly on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 00:17

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We left the website non-monitored. Here are the spam posts to prove that :).

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Submitted by Vikas on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 00:48

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Quote:

However, the posts from 'clark' and 'brooklyn' certainly contradict what you are saying. Did you or any member of debtcc write these excerpts?

These contents were there when I bought it, the owner Mr Paul had the database and the content under phpbb forum (the same platform that we use at debtconsolidationcare.com). I just installed the advance code over the database containing all the data.

Quote:
Can you explain the fictitious address and the residential phone number?

Thanks for letting us know, we left it without even going through all the content. I think it is time that I can give it a check and correct the information. I apologize for my ignorance.

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Whom did you purchase this website from?

I bought it from a guy called Paul whom I met at Gym. I left both the sites as it is.


Polly Says,
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Vikas I do want to believe, and I can see for myself that the site is not well maintained.

Thanks Polly for keeping the trust and I will never let it down. As any other DebtCC member my sole purpose for all my hard work is to offer something helpful. I wanted to explain everyone the hidden traps behind payday loans and also wanted to offer a better short term loan.

I wanted to work on the same model as that of Grameen Bank for short term loans. Since I was busy with my usual DebtCC work I could not take the concept further. I also wanted to discuss the issues with our community after collecting some initial fund to start the first unit of Grameen Bank.


Thanks,
Vikas


lrhall41

Submitted by Vikas on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 01:13

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Vikas,

Let me first tell you why I want to believe you. I have placed a lot of myself into this website because I had the belief that you and this website held the same ideals as I do. I have had the belief that this was an excellent platform to implement change in what is a very corrupt system in our world.

Everywhere I look I see big businesses thriving and average folks struggling. When businesses take advantage of vulnerable people, it is shameful and immoral. I have aspirations of becoming a lobbyist, like my role model, Jean Ann Fox, and lobbying for positive changes on behalf of the little guys in this world. This website has been my starting point, and I have big dreams for my future.

As much as I want to believe in you, these are the reasons why I am struggling to do so. Cashadvancecare.com was created on 6-19-03, one day before Debt CC. Clark's first post was on 2-28-06, and I am sorry Vikas, but if Clark is Paul, then he must be your twin in linguistics, because the tone of his posts are identical to yours.

Was the name of the URL different prior to your purchase?

Did you purchase only the URL, and not the business associated with it? What is the name of Paul's business and what state is he incorporated in?

Is cashadvancecare.com under Internext Technologies now that you own it?

The Grameen Bank model sounds lovely, yet idealistic in nature. Do you intend to fund these loans solely, or do you have a marketing strategy to seek out FDIC lending institutions to do this. Do you intend do use the same type of referral system?

Vikas, please understand that I had an inner struggle going on for hours before I started this thread. I knew when I saw the privacy report which linked back to visitlab.com that you owned the site. It wasn't until I discovered that the MT address was phony, that I got really upset. I had true feelings of betrayal. You have always encouraged everyone to resolve issues openly. This is what I am doing because I feel everyone here deserves to be part of this and have the opportunity to ask questions.

I have always know that you are an entrpreneur, and that is a wonderful thing. This is your opportunity to spill the beans. I found cashadvancecare.com totally on accident while looking for items to post within the Political Action on Debt forum. Obviously the world wide web isn't always as big as we would like to think it is. Are there other sites out there, aside from what you have posted above, which would make one of us scratch our head and say hmmmm?

I want you to prove me wrong Vikas. I really truly want to be wrong. So far you have not convinced me. Please convince me.

I am not certain what will be the best time for that phone call right now. I will let you know.

Peace,

Polly


lrhall41

Submitted by polly on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 04:28

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Quote:

Let me first tell you why I want to believe you. I have placed a lot of myself into this website because I had the belief that you and this website held the same ideals as I do. I have had the belief that this was an excellent platform to implement change in what is a very corrupt system in our world.

Thanks Polly, I really appreciate your contribution. I always wanted to provide a platform to offer help. Once I faced it myself and then I decided to take a stand and offer help to others http://www.santacruzsentinel.com/archive/2004/December/15/local/stories/02local.htm.
I could not have made it so far without all of you.

I, along with this community, will always stand against anything that is not right.

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Was the name of the URL different prior to your purchase?

Yes, it was same.

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Did you purchase only the URL, and not the business associated with it? What is the name of Paul's business and what state is he incorporated in?

Paul is just a technical guy and his business is to create and sell domains. I can provide you his phone number as well, please send me a PM if it is required.

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Is cashadvancecare.com under Internext Technologies now that you own it?

Yes, it is under Internext Technologies.

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The Grameen Bank model sounds lovely, yet idealistic in nature. Do you intend to fund these loans solely, or do you have a marketing strategy to seek out FDIC lending institutions to do this. Do you intend do use the same type of referral system?

As I said I have not finalized the plan as it will be a unique concept to help people in need of quick money. I am planning to make it a community funded where community members will be able to act as lenders and borrowers. I still need to manage some initial funds, which I plan to raise through talking to various people whom I know personally. My intention again is not to generate money but to provide a platform, which works well for this need.

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Vikas, please understand that I had an inner struggle going on for hours before I started this thread. I knew when I saw the privacy report which linked back to visitlab.com that you owned the site. It wasn't until I discovered that the MT address was phony, that I got really upset. I had true feelings of betrayal. You have always encouraged everyone to resolve issues openly. This is what I am doing because I feel everyone here deserves to be part of this and have the opportunity to ask questions.

I appreciate it the most as I have always believed in truth and openness :). I can understand the feeling and I feel guilty for being ignorant but I request you to keep your trust on me. Every night I want to have a good sleep and satisfactory smile, I do not want to be involved in anything that will not guarantee a happiness of the people with whom I work.
Polly I am an entrepreneur but more than that I wanted to be a good being. If you can look a little deeper you can understand that none of these websites ever had a business behind it, as I was never comfortable in running a typical payday loan site. The spams and un-organized site explain that it never attracted me. I never dealt with a payday loan company and you can verify yourself by signing up at these sites.

Polly I ask for 6 months and within the period I will try to have my Grameen Bank concept installed. I don't know how to convince you but I know I will not run a typical payday loan company. In fact I will not get involved in anything that take advantage of vulnerable people.

Regards,
Vikas


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Submitted by Vikas on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 07:15

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Hi Sue,

As I have already explained my intentions about the website cashadvancecare.com which will be for a noble cause, I request everyone to give us sometime so that we give a new look to it with the points focused. We will hold a community vote after the website is renovated. Your votes will decide if it should finally stay online or closed down. I will accept what the community will decide.

Thanks
Vikas


lrhall41

Submitted by Vikas on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 14:59

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Vikas,

I am a bit confused, are you getting into the payday loan business? After I read your first reply, I thought it was a forum that would be established to voice our opinions against payday loans. I'm sorry but this is very upsetting if you choose to get into this type of business after the problems that have been posted on the forum over the last several months. I see the site has much spam and not well-monitored but this is disturbing to me. I hope in good conscience that getting into the payday loan industry is not even a thought for you. :cry:


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Submitted by Cow & Chicken on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 15:47

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I'm with Mishele-don't want to loose you Polly,you have helped many prople here. So,I am really confused,Polly,are you saying that Vikas already owns a pay day lending company,too? VikasI really didn't understand what you meant when you said something about voting?For what? I know I am slow,but could both of you explain in plain,simple terms?Thanks...Karen


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Submitted by Bossy4455 on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 16:06

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Hi Mishele, Hi Bossy4455

I am not going into the typical payday loan business. I am aiming at a forum that will explain the evils of Cash advance. The site will be something similar to www.prosper.com. I posted this above and here it is again for your understanding it better.

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As I said I have not finalized the plan as it will be a unique concept to help people in need of quick money. I am planning to make it a community funded where community members will be able to act as lenders and borrowers. I still need to manage some initial funds, which I plan to raise through talking to various people whom I know personally. My intention again is not to generate money but to provide a platform, which works well for this need.


The community vote will decide later if the site intended to educate people should finally stay online. Since the site was left unattended for quite some time, we will get it renovated at the earliest and put it in front of everyone. I see most of the people going through the bad consequences of payday loans. I want to do something for their good, not hurt them. Since the site is not ready yet, it is causing confusions. I hope that it gets clear soon.

Regards
Vikas


lrhall41

Submitted by Vikas on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 16:23

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Vikas,
I think there needs to be some explanation to the members. It looks to me that you're playing both sides of the fence here.
Offering loans for "quick cash" is nothing but a way for the lender to make money.
We have spent an enormous amount of time and energy helping these people to revive their shattered lives from the payday loan business.
These types of loans do nothing but exacerbate the problem.
I can't even believe you would consider this. As we all have indicated here, this is quite disturbing evidence.
It would behoove you to reconsider this decision as you will not have any proponents, and no amount of "voting" will reach the decision you are looking for.


lrhall41

Submitted by erzeke1 on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 16:27

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...this thread has my attention, so I have to comment.

I have never taken a payday loan, mainly because I have learned how evil the industry is as it currently stands -- I would support shutting down the entire payday loan industry, but I cannot see that happening because the industry would be able to pay off enough politics to thwart such an effort.

If the model being proposed by Vikas is along the lines of prosper.com -- featuring short term loans that are payday like in nature but not in practice or structure, then I could actually see that working -- however, the credit screening process would have to be at a higher standard than what stands (meaning less profits and defaults), and individuals should not be allowed more than one loan at a time, that is, no paying fees to extend the original loan with another loan which leads to the horror stories that bring many to this site.

Not that I really care, I do not, but if I think the idea could work if all things were upfront and special emphasis was placed on educating loan-takers to the general overall dangers of financial mismanagement.

...just my two pennies.


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Submitted by Codie on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 16:46

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Ok, I've not been able to fully check out the other site yet, But I will give it a thorough investigation later tonight when I get motivated.

Vikas--If you truly want to start a program as what you're saying you do, I think that could be a positive thing...But the lenders are going to need to be screened somehow to keep the shady ones out, right? How would that process go? I get the general idea of the concept, but need to understand it better.

Couldn't you just shut the site down until you get it situated the way it's supposed to be?? I was on the phone with Liz when she attempted to sign up, so I know it doesn't work..Unless we did something wrong in the process....That's going to be part of my investigation.

The site from what we can tell does not ask for any financial information, which was a relief to us. But I'd like to see the site be put down for now if possible...Just for peace of mind, ya know?

--Jessi


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Submitted by Jessi on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 17:07

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This forum is so anti-payday loan (as it should be in my opinion) that people have a right to feel some hints of possible betrayal -- I do not blame one person for voicing concern regarding the info Polly found and reported on (and I share the same concerns) -- however, I also do not begrudge Vikas's idea (assuming) that a new standard and ethical way regarding short term financing can be done if done with honorable intent.

Again, I would have everything upfront and spelled out -- doing so would have lessened the shock many are feeling upon encountering this thread, instead of inadvertantly giving comfort to the payday loan vultures who love to depower and divide those seeking help at invaluable sites such as this one.

...I'll shut up now.


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Submitted by Codie on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 17:09

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Codie - please don't shut up. You have added a lot to this discussion already. I was online with polly last night when she discovered it and to say the least we were shell-shocked. I think the concept that "Vikas" has may work but at this point it is hard to grasp or even understand why someone would want to get in the payday loan business. I think honesty is the best policy and I'm not sure that's what we're getting right now. Please stay with us on this everyone.


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Submitted by CycloneFan on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 17:35

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Sue, I agree. I think what has happened is hard on all the people who value this site. I hope every thing works out for the best. This forum has been a lifesaver for so many people. I know that we are only on-line but I value a lot of people's friendship on here. KYSIDE38


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Submitted by KYSIDE38 on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 17:39

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Everyone has taken so much time to form this togetherness. Let's not break this bond with each other. This can hurt a lot here. Polly, I hope you are reading it? I also wish that you feel better soon. I know you will always make good decisions as you have done till now. See what others are feeling for you (myself included). Don't keep it to your heart. Talk and clear it out.


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Submitted by andyyoung on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 17:47

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I have done a lot of soul searching today. I will not lie. I do not belive you Vikas, and I do not say this lightly.

I believe with every fiber of my being that you are 'Clark' on that website. I think every single person here can look at Clark's posts and see Vikas's name on it. The things that Clark posted follow the theme of the services on that website.

I believe that regardless of what your intent was for that website, that you are misleading us by denying that you are Clark. For this reason you have lost my trust. If you would have said yes I am Clark, I would have had an easier time believing everything else, but now I cannot believe one word of what you have said.

I am certain you will develop cashadvancecare.com to follow closely to the model that you have laid out, but I also believe that you will start a new website to gather the PDL referrals, which was your true intent for cashadvancecare.com.

I apologize profusely if I am wrong, but I sincerely do not think that I am.

I am going to seek out a new home on the net.

Peace,

Polly


lrhall41

Submitted by anonymous on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 17:49

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ok, I'm going to join in here finally...I've had conflicting emotions,and it's been a flurry of phone calls between me and Liz and Polly.

This board saved me last winter, and I hope I've contributed to saving some others. No matter what, we can't take away what this place means to us. This is about us, and all the people out there who need our help.

I won't leave here..Vikas asked for 6 months to prove it. I am confused and shocked, but people need to be educated, and I've always liked being able to do that.

Does this make me weak and unprincipled? No, not at all. Like I said, I'm just as confused as the rest of you. But I too was on the phone with Liz when she applied for that loan, and that site was dead

I have a few questions that I need answered myself. I hope that these get answered. In the meantime I have no choice but to give Vikas the benefit of the doubt, and stay and help..Not for the people who run this site, but for ME, and the people who need my help.


lrhall41

Submitted by finsfan13 on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 17:56

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Quote:

Couldn't you just shut the site down until you get it situated the way it's supposed to be??

Yes, I will put a new page today. I think that will help us understand that I am not running a payday loan company. Also I will never run a payday loan company.

Why should I run such a company :(? I request everyone to understand that I am not running a payday loan company, I have explained the things in detail. I will put the new page on ampmcash.com and cashadvancecare.com which will help us understand.


lrhall41

Submitted by Vikas on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 18:07

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I think there are too many emotions involved here.
This
place is a message forum and should be taken as such. It's great that many people have been helped,and possibly saved from disaster. With that being said, I
think too many people are treating this forum with much emotion,don't! you're only going to get hurt.

Don't let one person ruin your experiences.It
seems alot of friendships were made here,just the way it should be.

If "Vikas" is able to smile and sleep at night as he lines his pockets with others misery,so be it! Don't
make it your problem.

Just cut the emotional attachments and move on!


lrhall41

Submitted by Roadwarrior on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 18:49

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I was also very upset when polly showed me this last night and I also started doing some research.

I also want very much to believe that Vikas Ultimately has honest intentions. As with every member of this community we owe it to Vikas to hear him out and to look objectively at the supporting documentation he provides.

The Issues surrounding payday, case advance, what ever you want to call it evoke strong emotions especially in this community.

Everyone, PLEASE check out the link to the wikipedia entry Vikas provided in an earlier post about the Garmeen Bank. It is actually a novel idea, and one which I think many in the community could come to endorse. It's not High Interest, loan sharking type loans we have come to expect from this industry. Please look at all the information before making rash decision and judgments. There are some criticisms, but those are issues which Vikas can address in his "own" bank, and based on what he has seen in this community I would think he would have a blue print on how to address those issues.

While still weary, I will give Vikas a chance to develop his idea before forming my finale opinion.

Vikas, I would like to talk to you about these ideas sometime, I have some other random thoughts running through my head, but would like to talk to you and get some clarification before posting them. When would be a good time I could call you (if thats ok) and what number should I call ( you may PM or email it to me if you wish).


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Submitted by LCW on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 19:13

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Ok, so far there are 2 sites you have? After reviewing your ampmcash site, I'm becoming a little skeptical.
I honestly don't know what to think now, but I'm going to take a little break from here for awhile.
I've met some good,honest people on here, and for that I'm thankful.
Roadwarrior: This subject DEFINATELY churns up many emotions! These people picked me up from a very dark place that I never want to see again. U BET THERE ARE EMOTIONS HERE!!!!!
With that, I will say so long for now.


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Submitted by erzeke1 on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 19:14

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Yeah I'm with Fins and Clay,I am not leaving this site for now. I think there should be given time to correct,change and explain this throughly. I have stayed and will continue to stay to help give others hope that there is a better way,to educate those on their rights,and to hopefully help others,like I was helped :D ...Karen


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Submitted by Bossy4455 on Mon, 08/07/2006 - 20:52

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Ok, I have visited both sites, and both are basically skeletons....neither one with a whole lot of anything.

Roadwarrior...Had you been around between the months of November/December until the end of February, early March, you would understand why we get so emotional. This was the time period when we began to really break ground with the PDLs and it's when we started to put our lives back together. We've become a family--Both here and otherwise. Many of us talk offline..And not just about money issues, we help eachother through anything and everything.

It's fine if you don't feel that way, but don't knock us for it please..lol We can't help it. :)


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Submitted by Jessi on Tue, 08/08/2006 - 06:30

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Jessi....

I am not knocking you! Just seems everyone is putting alot of "Emotional Energy" into this site. All this
is is a forum for people to help others,which is great!

And it's great people actually "talk" to one another
outside of this forum,that's the part that counts.

I would think from what everyone has been through,pDL's,crooked collections,etc. that people would be a little weary of things,and not surprised
when someone is out to scam you,as "Vikas" seems to
have done.

So Jessi,respectfully I disagree with the notion of
this forum being a family.

I also realize Being a moderator you have a vested interest to keep members involved in the drama,I understand that.however,it's just another forum.

Respectfully,

Mike


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Submitted by Roadwarrior on Tue, 08/08/2006 - 08:16

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Mike,

Let me jump in here with hopes of maybe helping explain what Jessi meant or I may be way off. I think that the feeling of some of us is that our trust in "Vikas" is no longer there. The "family" comment does mean something to me also because I have made some good "friends" here that I talk to either online or on the phone pretty regularly. I agree with you that this forum is a place for us to help others and get help, we've all done that and hopefully this forum will continue to do that. I don't think that anyone wanted to create "drama" or to keep people involved in drama, Polly just wanted others to be aware of what she had found because it's only fair to everyone for them to know what is going on. I agree with her but I'm not sure what I am going to do right now, I don't have a lot of trust in "Vikas" partly because, yes, we all hide behind our aliases (I don't but some do) but if he would have been upfront with polly in the first place and admitted who he is on the other sites then I think the reactions would not have been so emotional.

I have a lot of respect for you and your situation, Mike, and I really enjoy what you contribute and our conversations on PM. I think what you are doing and have done is excellent.

Check out the other 2 sites this morning if you haven't already - "Vikas" has changed them like he said he would.

Take care,

Sue


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Submitted by CycloneFan on Tue, 08/08/2006 - 08:28

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hmm.. let's leave it on time. I wish Vikas proves with his commitment. I think he will understand what the situation demands here. We all know how much attentive he has been to this community over the past months. Suddenly, we found something about his project that is unattended and not working presently. We are making judgments because of the fact that we saw it in front of our eyes. We didn't see it functioning???right?

If it had been in working stage, there wouldn't have been a few pages in it. He explains he doesn't intend to do payday loan business. We can't oppose him because the website is just there and not doing anything online. He intends to explain something but our mind is not accepting anything because we were bitten by the payday loan sharks in the past. And we are just culminating fear inside. Nothing else, if I keep myself in the situation where I want to explain something that I think is good, I will feel bad if no one accepts it.

Vikas, I don't know what to say here, but I feel for you. You need to prove something over the period of time. You have to kill our fear. I feel your intentions are good and you will get my back.

BTW, I came here to say here that our community is very helpful towards the new visitors in the new topics. They are left unattended. We need to help them too. :)


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Submitted by andyyoung on Tue, 08/08/2006 - 10:44

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Roadwarrior,
I support Jessi on the family theory..We have been through so much together, some of the people on this board know me as well as my friends in the real world. Some of us have spent countless hours in chat having conversations you wouldn't believe..And I can never forget the times when I thought I'd never see the end of payday loan hell, and the people here cheered me on. And when I finally did come to the end, they cheered me on again.

This is an important place to me, and to others too. You bet we've put a lot of emotional energy into it, the debt situations we have been through and some of the choices we made in the past are humiliating, and all we had was each other. It's not drama, it's real-world friendship. This is not the only place a lot of us talk.

Like I said before, this board is about us, and what we can do for people.


lrhall41

Submitted by finsfan13 on Tue, 08/08/2006 - 12:03

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Just think, if Vikas was really having bad intentions behind our back, he would never have done something to make this place better and better every single day. Those who are regular here know how thankful we have been to Vikas at times. A person with bad intentions would not have gained that support from others.

There are many other online forums in the internet. I didn't find a single one having such a bonded community and feeling for others. You can participate anywhere and roll that thing. But you can build a strong relation with others only when you get the platform and support of others. I have often seen Vikas logged in late at nights here and working on new things just to help others. The next morning, he posts happily and shares his new creativity. If he is that bad, he would have never cared for us. He would have had the attitude ???who cares' But we know it's not that .. It takes a long time to get some value in front of everyone but one single moment is enough to ruin it completely. I don't want to be ungrateful for something that never served the purpose because of which this conversation started. It's one bad day to go through these bad moments. Polly, I am missing you, so much. Come back!!


lrhall41

Submitted by andyyoung on Tue, 08/08/2006 - 12:27

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I respectfully disagree!

That's a dangerous way to think Andy,that a guy that owns a website cares for you. That's what killed
the followers in Jonestown. They believed so much
that their leader cared for them that when he told them to drink of the kool aid,they all partook.We
all know what happen then!

I know that's an extreme example,however the train of thought is the same!


Respectfully,

Mike


lrhall41

Submitted by Roadwarrior on Tue, 08/08/2006 - 13:49

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Geez, go on vacation and all hell breaks loose.. my turn..Okay Vikas, Polly laid down some serious charges and you have responded, and yes there are some emotions and bonds between those who post and interact here, hell aI nkow there have been some good friendships made...

What does all this mean to me.. well 1) Vikas and Polly need to have a heart to heart 2)Even if Vikas was up to no good on other sites, it does not affect the value of this forum 3) Although I believe Vikas to a point I also understand Polly's skepticism

4) Even if it were true that Vikas was in the CA business, I would not quite posting here as long as this forum had value and I would not consider Vikas "bad: as long as he was conducting business in a lawful manner. I say this from the viewpoint of whatever he may be doing elsewhere, Vikas has fostered and created a very valuable forum here that is truly helping people.

As for the J analogy, not only an extreme example but a very wrong train of thought, that my friend was a personality cult.


lrhall41

Submitted by jj on Tue, 08/08/2006 - 14:26

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