If the debt owed was presented to me far over 30 days ago, can I still validate -- well, perhaps that's not the right question, I know I can but is there any use? Can I still relieve myself of responsibility if they don't answer within 30 days? As far as a cease and desist letter, can I write that at any time as well? What if from now on I don't want any more calls I want ALL communication done through mail, do I have to have a reason for this? Do they have to comply, and if they are obligated to comply, what if they dont? Also, one more question.