My wife and I are in over our head and need advice in getting help. My wife lost here job and exhausted unemployment benefits, my pay has been cut due to my companies poor performance in this economy. We have over 140,000 in unsecured credit card debt which we have fallen behind on. There is no equity in our house as the mortgage is near the value of the house/property. We have come up with a little bit of cash and would like to try and settle with some of the credit card co's. I'm scared to do this on my own !! Looking for help.