In 2003 I defaulted on a credit card due to personal financial difficulties. Although I was enrolled in a debt settlement program,the monthly fees were equal to my "payment". I just wasn't able to continue to pay money to a nonpofit group,thus getting myself deeper in debt.
I paid off several cards on my own but was unable to totally pay off one. Each time they called at my work they demanded a check by phone and like a fool,I did so. They told me they would have my job,get my car, and that I would never be able to borrow money again.