I'm going to try to get to the point and then go more into my larger history in case anyone is interested.
I fear I'm running out of options to prevent myself from literally running out of money due to paying all my debt payments on time. I can't assume my income is going to increase in the short-term and don't really have any significant room for further cutting of my budget. So I'm about to waive the white flag and say goodbye to my credit rating in order to save my sanity.
Bankruptcy I believe is not an option (read below) based on my conversation with a bankruptcy attorney.