Hello I am a financial mess with money. I don't even know when it exactly started but it was at least 5 years ago. I don't even have a huge reason why. I have never been very truthful with my husband regarding the bills and it always seemed like regardless of the raises or how much we made, it was never enough. About 3 years ago we even had our boat repoed. After begging my husband for forgiveness in the middle of the night(he didn't know we were behind of payments), he stayed. During this time period I bounced a lot of checks and was lucky enough to not go to jail for it (we paid them).