I have 18,000.00 in Credit card bills. I am a married mother of one. I am in a very unstable marrage and I need to get my financial situation under control so I can leave my husband and be able to support myself and my daughter. I had a job making $55,000.00 per year with perks such as a gas card, I did not pay for gas for 10 years, both my home and cell phone bills were paid by my company, and I was given $500.00 a month for a car allowance. I was layed off from that job, and my 16 year old daughter died. For four months I was a zombie and did not take care of my bills at all.