I need help. Husband and I are both in our early twenties, married 4 years, and we've gotten in over our heads. I was making a ton of money as a salesman for a large dealership, and we both basically got out of control with our spending habits. After a year of my job, I'd had it up to my eyeballs with the BS of the job, and thought I'd be fine walking into something else. It hasn't been that easy, and now I'm getting behind on bills, and making minimum payments on cards. I don't want to consider the "B" word, I'm committed to paying off my debt and burning the plastic.