I am simply looking for advice on where to start. My wife and I have a blended family with a total of 5 children. I work 2 jobs and she stays home with them to save n childcare. We have 2 cars that we are way upside down on. We have a home with zero equity. We have been living off our credit cards for the past year or so because her ex has been way behind on child support and we have gotten no help from the state. We are now to our breaking point where we simply will not be able to make our bills and still put food on the table.