This is my scenario:
2 years ago, I had to leave a job that I was making over 10K more a year than at present. During that time, we have been(barely) being able to make our Credit card, mortgage and other payments. It has been becoming increasingly difficult where we have been 'borrowing from Peter to pay Paul' and I know it will soon blow up around us. We are presently on time with our 1st mortgage and credit cards, but are now a month behind with car payments and 2nd mortgage. I know its going to only get worse before it gets better.