My story isn't so different from many others...just that it happened to me. My husband and I were separated for many months and he was seeing someone else. After we had gotten back together, the woman notified him that she was pregnant. I now have a beautiful 3 month-old step-son, but we also have the financial obligations that go along with a baby. We weren't ready for the expenses of a child, let alone the legal fees that we've incurred.