I know there are many others out there who have gotten themselves into a huge mess with pdl's and their husband/wife does not know about it.
I was one of those people. My husband did not know about my seven payday loans. I was living in a nightmare of shame and secrecy.
After reading a post from another member here about her success in telling her husband, I got up the courage to come clean with my husband. It was difficult, but he was supportive and was able to get a loan from a family member to pay off my loans.
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