I have racked up lots of debt, tried getting out by refinanciag my car, but the debt is still mounting. My significant other has no idea and I can not share because I have brought it on myself. I need to free myself from this huge burden that keeps me awake at night, shows in my somber moods, tight muscles, and stress is overwhelming. debt consolidation loan sounds like the way to go, but I can not use my home as collateral and give it all up to SO. I want to fix this on my own.


