I was so glad to find this site! I have been subject to the same type of childish tactics as others for the past year. It began when I went thru a divorce in which my husband left me less than nothing, as I was stuck with all of our credit card debt! He was savvy enough to never have me put him on my cards, and it was those cards that kept our children clothed, etc. for the last year of our so-called marriage.
Citibank was the only creditor that refused to work with me when I had almost no income and was paying the divorce attorney her hefty fees.